Hey to Anyone I might have offended with my words,esp Goldmember and Sedit, I'm sorry if you were
"upset in ANY way" This was not my intention, I've been having a "CONSISTENTLY,, REALLY BAD YEAR,"...my back is fucked, I have been in varying levels of pain and ALL my "plans for this year,are out the--window",,.......
And then', about two weeks ago,, a Nurse, who "Really SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER,,"......said TWO things to me,maybe 4 days apart.(If she didnt "Know about my 'history' she would have been blameless,for in most ways her remarks were innocuos,,,
(HOWEVER,, She DID know, in fact we had recently "talked about,,How Much,,"I HATE to 'recall' about my past Medical History' with "New doctors" let alone "NON medically oriented people,,...) which was what she later brought up, unexpetedly,and inappropriately.EXACTLY THAT, at " the wrong time and place"....And I nearly EXPLODED!!! and had a "post traumatic event" ,,the likes of which I havent had in OVER 10 years...and it has taken me, ,'since then',, to get my head back into some 'reasonable shape,,mainly, with the help of talking about it with some good friends,,and them "letting me VENT, Big time!!" Thanx to their, "Love and Care" for me,,I''m feeling 80% better,,BUT 'Still pissed off', and I'm NOT going to let these pricks get away with what recently happened--and will 'hassle them back', using Lawyers, who ARE MORE THAN HAPPY, for 30% of the "take",, to make these guys lives Hell,, and I'll be giving them ALL a 'GO' at what recently happened,,could take a few years,,but i'm not doing anything till my backs repaired,, and I'm Not going to be "pulling ANY punches"...they've "crossed the line," in my book,,
(IMHO,,'A "problem shared" IS (most often) a "problem halved"---MOST PARTICULARLY if the 'problem' is Emotionally based--thats when a "trusted friend" can help you get some 'perspective' on the MINDFUCK,, that has popped in for a bit of 'aggro'....
And I 'may have let some of my anger and frustration' with a few STUPID FUCKIN DOCTORS, and the even MORE STUPID govt "guidlines" that can, and do,, (from,, "Fear of the Govt's Big Stick) which they most successfully "Control" a Large percentage of those 'doctors'
( Who are Really "Sheeple with a medical degree, and for whom the "Hippocratic Oath" is, effectively just 'another fomality', o to be addressed, on the way to 'becoming', a "Wealthy and Highly Respected (fuckwit 90% of the time-who get greedier as they get older

") "specialist" who rarely gives a shit,, Especiall IF you are a "potential Drug Abuser" (what's that 'mean' Effectively??? AAaaaaaargh!!! let me OUT of HERE!!!!!
Ah oops...mmmmm sorry all, I projected some of that 'frustration and anger "in the wrong place at the wrong time"
Salat put what i was"wanting to say"across beautifully
It's called a trigger or button - sedit accidentally pushed a button for tsog. (and quite possibly others,)
Sometimes people have really intense reactions to seemingly innocent words or actions that cause unusually strong emotions and defensive reactions. At the time they often don't realize that their responses are over the top. Usually once they calm down they wonder at the intensity of their response.
With an Emphasis on the words 'accidentally', and 'seemingly innocent words' someone in the real world "pushed a few 'old triggers of mine' and I was amazed at my "reaction" to certain people and events,----- in hindsight
BUT I personally think this thread has potential,as you shall see in my next post, as i would call the previous discussions as "teething troubles" ...as well as, working out some a way NOT to let this become a "Useless thread" and that we ALL "try to maintain,the High level of quality ALREADY well established in this Forum",,
I think old mate Tsog has "hit the nail on the head with this statement
Political correctness doesn't work in real life and it definitely doesn't work on the Internet, especially where everyone is of different backgrounds, comes from different places, and are native speakers of different languages. Innocent circumstances can lead to spectacular misunderstandings; take, for example, what happens when one mixes a Russian->English dictionary with a person of color. If offense is assumed, then one will prove quite adept at finding it, even where it doesn't exist.
Consequently we ALL should "try" to be as 'friendly as possible'..this isn't hard to do..By All means 'speak your mind', just try and keep in mind that there ARE people from ALL over the world in this forum,,and by staying polite 'in' the threads themselves isn't hard

IF you REALL WANT TO GIVE SOMEONE A 'SERVE', and flame them into nanobits,, do it via PM,,this thread is as serious attempt as possible,, for people to 'ask questions that 'seem a bit lost anywhere else

--take the next thread I start here--I really dont know where to 'put it'....mods please any advice is taken graciously,unless intended otherwise
Sedit, you and Vesp were absolutely right in stating that "this Indeed will be 'The Only Site' with a "dumb questions" thread
Lets give it a go

I look forward to your comments
cheers all
hyppy